Said id check in just in case Xants or Vaughn run out of things to say. Where am I this month? Well I was hoping for 2 lays a month this year. I have yet to hit it, so while I wait the following are some player grinds I have lately;
- Texting girls I have no interest in or have the witt of a raisin.
- Shy Girls. Eddie Murphy was right never trust a shy bitch.
- Self obsessed girls.
- Being up until 3am in the morning for the sake of a notch off a 6, when there’s work to be attended to by 7am.
- Oxford Street. I mean why bust your vibe.
Did I mention I didn’t shag anyone I actually liked last year? Yes I shagged quiet a few I fancied, a few 7s, maybe even low 8s going by how some people rate girls, but not one did I want to spend anytime with after the process. Most bored me, most did not even ask what I did after even a few dates, some thought I was literally there to listen to their boring drivel and nod like a dog while increasing their emotional levels every so often when I decided it was time to tease or verbally bamboozle them. If I am being honest I fucked it up in my mid twenties fucking 8 & 9* whores across different continents. Beauty is no longer enough; I need substance, conversations and fun.
Also why oh why do I fancy 27-30 year olds more than 21 – 24 year olds. I’ll go into this in more detail in the coming months. I’ll leave it with a convo I had in a whatsapp group of people in normality I’m apart of (a few ex players in their time but now happy out following societies path). I had just announced I had shagged a 40yo Kate Moss lookalike and one of my mates asked Mr S why is it always one extreme or the other for you i.e. ‘really young or really old’ to which I replied because I think ill fall in love if I go after a girl my own age. At that point I was on a bit of a run so I honestly thought I was being quiet the seducer employing that their way was better, but now I’m thinking maybe I was telling the truth. The one plus is when hitting 40 I wont have to worry about not being able to get the early 20s seen as I doubt ill want them.
I nearly forgot the update:
- 3 dates since back in London after Christmas.
- Date 1, a polish girl pulled me off onto her chest which some to my laughter hit her face(she was on her period). It was a lead from before Christmas and was our 3rd date. I lost interest and decided there was no point pushing for the notch as it was the 3rd date, I didn’t much fancy her and I knew she was looking for a bf.
- 2nd a Palestinian in her 30s. First daygame approach of the year, 1st date lay, never to be seen again.
- 3rd a lovely Canadian around my age, job, cute and lives a couple of blocks away. Had one date and will report back.
- Fucked it up in the seduction phase of a German girls friend Vaughn is trying to fuck or may have fucked judging from the sounds coming from his room. To be fair she did state she had a bf but clearly did fancy me or at least enjoyed my banter so I should be reporting I at least tried and got a slap. Ps I think Xants may have also turned her off boys for a while.
- I read Bodi’s book. A brilliant read.
Thoughts on improvement:
- Hit the streets early and number farm hard. I remember the first time I did daygame was around 10am on a winters morning in Sloane Square and yes there was very little around but never the less I still did around 5 approaches in a half hour. There were girls in yoga pants, the streets were empty and pleasant and I didn’t know it at the time but it was building my vibe during the calm before the storm of the busy streets.
- After number farm delete numbers that are of no interest. This is not being big headed as I still get days without a single lead but I think everyone has those days and everyone has those days where they get number after number.
- Really concentrate hard on gaming girls there was a sparkle in set. i.e. tease shoes or something similar rather than ‘Hi Sarah random but nice etc’. An example of this was when I met a nice English girl in Notting Hill and busted her in set on her dated phone. Looking back I should of text “Hi Sarah I forgot to ask for your postal address in case your phone doesn’t do text, but here goes, blah blah” but instead I said Nice meeting you today, are you always this nice to strangers?. No reply.
- If I’m on a date that I know I have no interest pull trigger early with risk of losing her. It’s better than having to go through the pain of 3 dates of the same shit to lay.
To summarise I think everyone will agree your first year is a numbers game which absolutely has to be done. I love Tom Torero’s quote of action first and the psychological will follow. Right now it’s about fine-tuning so the game can be played on my terms. I think they call it becoming a high value man. I brought up that I wanted to only pursue girls of quality from here on out before Christmas so I think its time to follow through. Before Xants attacks me with his HB scale and as I know he actually does pursue and bang legitimate Hot Birds I will make a caveat. Quality to me may mean a 7 with wicked sense of humour or dare I say it the something about her girl that the community refuses to speak of.
After rereading this post its clear I have allot of shit to work out like capitalising i’s. I foresee some dark nights of the soul to come.
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