The ridiculous HB scale

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Everybody knows it, we all use it and of course it isn’t fit for purpose, I am of course talking about the ubiquitous HB scale. As PUA’s, players and aspiring players we all use it to rank girls on a scale of 1 to 10. The reality is though we only really use 3 of those numbers: 6 – I’d …

Identity-Passion Mastery

Vaughn Daygame theory, Diary, Mind wank, Mindset 1 Comment

I finished re-reading Krauser’s Balls Deep.  It’s a good read even if just to show what some hard-work and grind can get you out on the streets. Lay stories aside, it’s his players journey experience that I identify with. His last lay in the book is with Zaria the Russian 10, he explains the moment that she decided to have sex …

Date Report Korean 6 – one drink drunk

Vaughn Cities, Date reports, London 1 Comment

My date yesterday was another semi-disaster. I took the Korean girl I met on the weekend out in Nottinghill. I still haven’t nailed down the perfect route back closer to my place yet. I found a good quietish bar, with a relaxed pub atmosphere for the first venue, then depending on, how “on” the girl is I either walk her …

Winged Daygame – Xants Account

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Fuck me it was hard. Cold, bitter wind today, struggling for state. Still we did go out, we did open, we did get numbers. I also got to hang out with my buddies, at one point yesterday there were 5 of us, which is really too many. We do seem to be getting to know most of the active daygamers …

Solo Daygame Adventures 4 – HongKong

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So I’ve decided that German girl is now tooling me. Despite a good D3 she hasn’t responded to my date request for Sunday. My internal debate is firing between being persistent versus telling her she’s had her chance. Always the advice is do the opposite to what a chode would do. So in this instance she has waiting too long …

Life re-engineering

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Take action. That’s one thing I sometimes do well. Not always of course, I spent 9 years trapped in a marriage that at times was rewarding but often deeply troubling and should have ended it sooner. I was deeply beta in that marriage and put myself second in almost every way which was not only bad for me but deeply …

Italian Flag

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First +1 of the year done last night and there isn’t much to write about, in fact I think I can summarise it as; yes girl, did not fuck up. A slightly longer version is; met a yes girl Italian in Notting Hill on Sunday, responded well to texts, met at Oxford Circus did 2 bars, kissed in 2nd bar, …