This is about reviving dead numbers that you haven’t already slept with. Girls that either resurface, or that you send out a bulk ping text to, and then they start responding once more.
Conclusion: Reviving old numbers is a waste of time. So much simpler to approach and get some new girls, who are open to it.
“Reviving” a number for one of your ex-girls that you have slept with is far simpler, as you’ve already passed on the hurdles, and now she even feels an obligation to make it work as a relationship opportunity.
A lot of players think that texting a girl who they got a number from six months or even year(s) ago will result in a date, and then a new notch. My experience is that it has never worked in four years, and around 400 attempts at this strategy. I’m open to be proven wrong, but even if you text 400 and date 10% of them, and get 2 notches, is that worth the effort? You’ll have more shit-tests, more resistance, dates and LMR.
We all get girls that resurface, typically they’re at a loose-end, maybe its Christmas, maybe they just landed back in town, mabye they just got ignored by their player boyfriend and they are looking for a bit of validation from their orbiting chodes (you!). But at the back of their mind, they rationalise “if I didn’t sleep with him xyz months ago, there must have been a reason, he must have been unsuitable – oh yes, I kept this dude as a friendzone guy to validate me”.
So what have a tried? Well, they add you on Facebook, become friends with you, follow you on Instagram. They message on whatsapp, and of go for the date after a few ping texts. They come on the date, maybe they require 2 dates even, following the LDM and then they refuse to come home. So we do all the usual stuff, ignoring, and abundance because we have other girls. These girls who resurfaced, never get laid though.
What’s everyone else’s experience. I’m interested to know your “time effort” for new girls, compared to your “time effort” reviving all those dead leads and dating them. I recon I can get a new girl in around 10 hours of effort, and I’ve never managed to revive a dead number in around 200 hours of effort I imagine. We’re all different, maybe this works for some of you players![gap size="3em"][author class="man" title="More About This Author"]